Smile, And Live Once More..

... I blamed myself for giving up.. I wept my failure becoz i deprived of wat should hav been mine.. But people say that, in love one has to giv without wanting in return... Its good if something is given back in return, If none then, try again... In love, we cannot alwiz b happy, we also hav 2 take da lost...

... I realized then that i do not hav 2 feel trashed, to feel unloved, to feel rejected n to consider myself as a loser.. For even if i havent won da battle at least i was brave enuff on da attempt... Still Im a winner in my own way.. So i wiped my tears away.. Im now ready to start a new life.. My failure was a gift from which I should try to learn to grow.. This is what love is all about.. sacrifice... We hav 2 find joy and fulfillment in making others filled and happy even if we get hurt..

... Acceptance juz comes too hard sometimes.. It takes time to accept and it takes much time to forget.. But people come n go in our lives, JUST BE WITH IT... We cannot simply let go of sumbody n forget becoz da memories will still b there haunting our heart... However, we should never cling to tht memories, instead we should used them as a tool 2 grow n 2 learn... One juz hav to smile, n pick da falling debris of dreams n live once more..

... From this, Ive learned tht though how hard it is to let go somebody without feeling hurt... I hav 2 accept tht he is gone n we r not meant 2 b... N dis is da worst thing ive ever done for love.. Indeed, da greatest thing ive had from love is to love itself.. I was lucky for being able to love n 2 b loved.. I learned to 4get, more so, I learned how 2 grow n let go of somebody without having regrets ab it and without feeling hurt..

... Like i said, jz click da DELETE button n erase everything in ur memory, throw them into RECYCLE BIN, REFORMAT ur heart n mind, n RESTART all over again.."

Comments

[Nicholas]

i like this "click da DELETE button n erase everything in ur memory, throw them into RECYCLE BIN, REFORMAT ur heart n mind, n RESTART all over again" hahahz...

[Brian]

well...that's life.
I was like in ur position. Chased for 1.5 yrs. Did a lot for her but then not appreciated. PPl said i was being used. Well..I'd grown up to go even further. This song accompanied me: Bu neng shou de mi mi coz there is one word: You said by gradually letting go I would go further.

So, focus in ur career to make u as busy as possible. U still have friends... :)

[-haVoc- sub]

if it doesn't kill you, it'll only make you stronger...
to go further...
things learnt from the past as well, but you'll do fine..
you have us and your friends behind your back... :)

[johathan]

to luv & to be luv is the most wonderful feelings in this world. At the same time to be hurt by the one u luv is also the saddest part of life. Life is like a long distance BUS. sometimes we move faster & sometimes it's just stalled. At the end of day - we must know when to get down & when to continue to move forward. Nothing is forever- what we have is memories we treasure. Know the good times but also remembered the not so happy times. That's how we learn to live thru life. Falling down is part of life we got thru & getting up is also part of growing up. mss from a boring corporate man

[wai khuen]

Me only can say "gan ba TEH"
haha

[Henry]

I dont wanna sound like a wise arse..I tried not to hate when I was dumped, I truly disagree her vision about happiness..happiness by hurting people, yeah right. I dont know for sure, but hating makes you move on..coz you know that you deserve so much more. We arise from our fall, knowing that we have become a better person..and you realize that the one who deserves you love will never ever hurt you..and will appreciate you with all of his heart. I cant tell you to spirit up..but I can tell you one thing, I hope you will never make the same mistake again by giving all of your heart to anyone..except maybe your truly future husband :) good luck Evonne and take care

[Jack Foo]

hopefully u stay strong always and take care...

u will find ur true love someday... good luck..

GAM BA TEH!!
good luck and stay pretty as always... bye!